Will be in the water pretty soon.  Wife and I taking 20 year anniversary trip to Kauai.  Could only hope this kind of thing would happen while we are diving.

Went scuba diving… dolphins swam by from Steve on Vimeo.

These social sites like Myspace, Facebook and others, are simply frightening to me.  I know I have a distorted perspective because of what I do.  I’ve seen too many marriages effected by Internet affairs and heard of too many stories of predators online. I actually signed up for one site about two months ago.  I got friend requests within a few hours.  I got spooked by the whole process almost immediately.  I was startled by the random and spontaneous nature of the “friendship” process.  So I withdrew from the site the same day.

I realize that this is part of the way people connect and participate in community now, but, I still urge caution.  I will probably get on such a site some day.  In the meantime I encourage my clients to be very careful about anything on the internet. I am probably too cautious, however, I certainly believe it is better to be safe than sorry.

I’ve decided to add a non Marraige or mental health theme to some of my posts.  One of my favorite things to do is Scuba Diving.  Since I don’t get to do it very often, (Oklahoma isn’t exactly a diving mecca) I’ll occasionally scratch that itch here.

Our last Dive Trip was to St. Croix.  We dove with S.C.U.B.A. out of Christiansted the first 2 days and the last day we dove with N2Blue out of Fredricksted.  I would highly recommentd bot places.  Our favorite dive was the Fredricksted Pier, click on it an see some of N2Blue’s info on it.